You were taught that hustle was holy.That exhaustion meant progress.That proving yourself—daily—was the price of being worthy.

But what if the grind isn’t growth?

In this episode, we expose the hidden religion of high performers:

* Where self-worth is measured by output

* Where rest feels like failure

* Where burnout is baptized as ambition

If the grind still owns your identity, it’s time to reclaim it.

Points covered:

* Why “working harder” is often just emotional avoidance

* How hustle becomes a performance of worthiness

* How to shift from martyrdom to mission

Let’s stop bowing to burnout and start leading from internal alignment.

✦ Reflection Prompts

* What identity do I feel I need to earn through effort?

* Where do I equate rest with weakness or guilt?

* What part of me still finds safety in being “the hardest worker in the room”?

* Who would I be if I no longer needed to prove my value through performance?

✦ Action Steps

Name the AltarWrite down where hustle shows up in your life as a false god—work, image, productivity. Call it out. Name the lie.

Reframe Rest as StrategyChoose one way to rest this week—not to recover, but to recalibrate. Anchor it in purpose, not permission.

Anchor to Identity, Not ActivityFinish this sentence five times:

“Even when I’m still, I am ___.”

Build truth into your identity—not just your calendar.

✦ Bonus Resource

Book a No-cost Success Blockers CallIf hustle is your drug of choice, it’s time to detox.Let’s name the real drivers behind your burnout and rewire the story.

This isn’t about slowing down—it’s about waking up.

✦ On the Next Episode

We’re calling out the trap that disguises itself as growth:

“Stop Healing. Start Building.”

Because endless self-work can become sophisticated avoidance.It’s time to move from processing to producing.

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✦ Engage With Me Online

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* LinkedIn: @coachinguatemala

✦ References & Influences

* Steve Chandler, Time Warrior — on redefining time, productivity, and internal ownership over hustle.

* Steve Hardison, The Ultimate Coach — on BEing and building identity from sacred commitment, not grinding.

* Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection — on the myth of proving self-worth through perfectionism and performance.

* Cal Newport, Deep Work — on the value of focused, meaningful work vs. constant hustle.

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